How To Give Her Oral Sex
*This article is for both men & women so enjoy 😁*
A couple of months ago I wrote an article about the awesome benefits of going down on a guy, and convincing people to let the taboo mindset go! Have fun while having sex! But today I want to convince you why you guys should go down on your lady 😉
*Read also: Oral Sex – The Perks*
First of all lets address the big elephant in the room, “Double Standards”. Now I know for a fact that double standards exist simply because in my previous relationship my ex literally forced my head down to his dick but wouldn’t even think about putting his face between my legs. He made me uncomfortable with my own body because he didn’t respect it the way I did to him (that’s also why he regrets the break up). So yeah double standards is real and please ladies who are reading this don’t let some guy make you feel bad about your body as long as you’re healthy you have nothing to feel insecure about (I had to learn the hard way).
Here are some tips/suggestions to successfully have oral sex:
Benefits of Oral:
- Bonding – First of all this is going to give you brownie points with your lady. She’ll feel better going down on you knowing that you love her body. She’ll reflect that same pleasure you are giving her on to you, so you’ll both enjoy sex. This is such a great bonding experience, you’ll both enjoy and you’ll tend to feel more comfortable with each other.
- More likely to Orgasm – If you haven’t made her orgasm before she’ll most likely orgasm from oral. It’s remarkably beautiful to see your girl have so much pleasure from you.
- Foreplay – Oral is also a great technique to warm up your girl. Men get turned on in less than 2 seconds. All a girl has to do is take of her clothes or shake her ass in his face then ding ding ding 🔔 your penis is ready af. For a girl it’s very different, we NEED foreplay. Instead of putting your dick into some dry ass pussy imagine sticking it into some warm wet juicy pussy. Not only does dry pussy not feel good but it’s kind of hurts the girl. Two dry things rubbing together creates friction my guy so eat her pussy to make her drip.
How to do the deed & How to do it right:
- Communication – I cannot stress enough how important communication is when having just about any sex. If you’re a female tell him what feels good to you, your likes and dislikes. If you’re a male ask her to tell you what she likes and dislikes while going down on her and most importantly don’t make her feel bad about her body.
- Now for you men or women out there that don’t understand the vagina here’s my mini ratchet version of how to oral sex:
- Techniques – Kiss her, kiss her neck appreciate her body, don’t just show love to her vagina you got to show it to all of her. Take your time with her, if you know her turn on spots go for it and then when she’s really turned on then tease her by kissing her thighs. Then lick her clit (clitoris) a little while you penetrate her vagina opening with a finger or two be gentle at first then increase speed the more she moans. Don’t violate her pussy like you see in porn because it just doesn’t feel nice. Be gentle at first and if she likes it rough escalate at a slow pace. (If she tells you to stop or something hurts don’t take it personally and ask her what you can do differently, as I said before communication is key)
Here are some edible lube you can use that’ll make oral sex 10x more wonderful:
My top 3 favorite tasting lube:
Thanks for reading! I hope this helps your sex life. Have fun and be sexy!