How to Improve Your Relationship
In my opinion, I believe that relationships work because two people decide to love each other. If you decide to love someone and they decide to love you then things would work out in the end. But once that one person no longer cares or puts in any effort for the relationship, the other has no choice but to let go.
Sometimes things can get bumpy in a relationship but giving up means that you no longer want to fight with them or for them. Giving up means you can no longer see the purpose in the relationship, and can’t go any further. After you exhausted every single little thing, in the end it can no longer work.
But if two people choose not to give up and to keep loving one another, here are some tips I have that can save your relationship.
- Vacation: it can be best for you guys to go on a vacation together to get away from drama at home. It also can bring you guys closer because, on vaycay you’re creating new experiences with that special someone. You can also find out a lot about someone when it’s just you and them. Their true selves come out.
- Space: sometimes you need to have the opportunity to miss someone. If you guys are always on top each other then it’ll be difficult to miss them. Hence the saying, “Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder”
- Dedicate a full 24hrs to spend time together: No distractions from work or family or anything. It’s all about each other. You can take this time to go for a peaceful walk, play board games, just play any non electronic games. Have physical contact, cuddles are the best, don’t engage in sex cause as women we feel like men just want us for sex so that doesn’t show you actually care.
I want to end this off with a pretty longgg but very meaningful quote lol:
“Some people are good at being in love. Some people are good at love. Two very different things, I think. Being in love is the romantic part–sex all the time, midday naps in the sheets, the jokes, the laughs, the fun, long conversations with no pauses, overwhelming separation anxiety … Just the best sides of both people, you know? But love begins when the excitement of being in love starts to fade: the stress of life sets in, the butterflies disappear, the sex becomes a chore, the tears, the sadness, the arguments, the cattiness … The worst parts of both people. But if you still want that person by your side through all of those things … that’s when you know–that’s when you know you’re good at love.” – Not sure of its origins
Those are all the 3 I have in mind, if I come up with more I’ll gladly make a pt 2 of this blog.
If anyone has anything to share on how they repaired their relationship feel free to share in the comments!
Thanks for reading and good luck!