Here’s something interesting that my lover and I tried… Blindfolds. Here’s why blindfolds are a good idea.
- It’s essentially a trust exercise
- It hightens pleasure – your other senses highten when your eyes are covered
- If you’re usually shy in the bedroom (which you shouldn’t be) this is the opportunity to go wild, he won’t see you he’ll only have his imagination to go off on
- If your eyes are covered you begin to use your imagination
- It’s a way to spice up things in the bedroom
- The suspense is amazing
Now here’s some things I suggest having on hand:
- Massage oil/ lubricant
- A feather tickler
- A whip
- A riding crop
- And of course blindfolds
Those tools make it 100x more fun. Now I of course love being in charge… for the most part, so this is super fun for me.
When I put the blindfolds over my lover’s eyes he began questioning everything… so maybe a gag is needed too lmaoo just kidding. I told him the point of this exercise is to imagine it all and that the suspense is what’ll drive you crazy.
At the time I didn’t have all the tools I listed above, I only had a feather and lube but, the next time we do it I sure will have all those items. It’s more fun trust me. They won’t know what’s coming next.
So here’s somethings I did:
- Obviously blind fold your man. Restraints aren’t absolutely necessary but in order to make it more exciting they can be used.
- I start off all the time with kisses. Kisses to me means I appreciate and love you and you mean the world to me. So kisses should be first.
- Next begin touching his whole body but avoiding his cock.
- Run your fingers all over, from his hair, face and, ears to his neck, chest, arms and, legs.
- Next use your lips and tounge, kiss his body. Lick his neck, suck, bite, whatever your lover likes.
- Use the feather to tease and tickle, his body.
- Now here’s when you want to start paying attention to his junk: you want to put your mouth really close to his cock and blow hot air. Then totally move to another part of his body.
- If you’re using a whip this might be the perfect time to use it between his thighs. Don’t whip too hard use a light hand when doing this and please don’t whip his actual genitalia.
- Then bring out that lube or massage oil and apply some on his body and his junk.
- You want to use your exceptional handjob skills (I hope you have em if not I can link a video here and here that I learned from.)
- Massage his penis, start off slow then speed it up. Then to keep the excitement you want stop before he climax and use the other tools mention above
- Repeat until he can’t take it no more and wants to climax.
*You can also switch it up use your hands mouth and breast or vagina* (just keep it interesting so he doesn’t know what comes next.)
Men are visual creatures and taking away his visuals forces him begin to rely on his other senses.
He’ll love you so much for it. Just make sure to ask your partner what he’s comfortable with, it’s important to make sure you guys both have fun.
I get off in seeing my man have pleasure and squirm. It’s the best feeling ever and everyone and anyone should try this. It’s a wonderful way to make sexy sexy time more interesting.
His words not mine “I didn’t like it, I loved it!”
Just have fun with it.
Thanks for reading! <3
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